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So what these cyber sex lovers are exactly doing? Well, they claim they are having sex. They don't like to call this "cyber sex" preferring plainly "sex". They often miss symbols when printing because they have one of their hands on themselves while the other is on the keyboard. Some just practice a foreplay online shooting off after that (yeah, they don't pay for coming. Arousal only).
Of course, very often they don't even know who they are doing sex with. Unless this is a video chat enabled cyber sex (which is still quite rare), you can never tell if the 20 year old appetite Florida blonde is really what she claims to be and not a big fat lumber from Minnesota. Maybe it's a computer geek with acne or a bored couple trying to have fun online. You can never know for sure.
Some of those who are into cyber sex deny this can happen. They prefer to believe in the fantasy that their cyber sex partners are really what they claim to be. Some of them just don't actually care. And some do practice cyber sex appearance deception for themselves. There are even those who think this is sexy - not to know what their cyber sex partner really looks like and even to understand they he may deceive you.
Cyber sex is Sex. It's true because the person practicing cyber sex actually explores their own sexual energy. They may not be sharing it with their sexual partner but that doesn't matter. On the other hand, the situation is quite controversial as the society has its own understanding of what sex is and one can experience some societal problems if he starts to claim he is into cyber sex and needs no additional sexual activity. Actually, the only reason to rise this question: "Is cyber sex a sex?" is to understand how complicated the issue is.
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